Hey everyone, well it's been a minute since I have posted. And yes it was on purpose. I just had to regather my thoughts as well as myself. It's hard sometimes to open up and just let go. But I have to remember who and what I am. I am a SURVIVOR of so many life changing things. I Survived abuse both physically and mentally. I survived failed relationships. I survived being told I would never be good enough. Yes I SURVIVED. So many people are thrust into darkness and never allow themselves to see once again the light. But it took me a while to remember that I am a fighter. Never will I allow anyone to place their bullshit upon my spirit. There are many people out here who are miserable and love nothing more than to make you miserable. I fell back into that trap for a moment. I did not value me. I allowed others thoughts concerning me to become my way of thinking as well. I felt because someone didn't love me then I must not love myself either. So I returned back to patterns of letting myself become abused. I thought well that was the way I am supposed to be. My life became dark again and it took God given strength to pull myself up out of that blackness. I have got to show the strength that was bestowed upon me so yes there will be times when the past will try grabbing hold of me but I have to remember I AM A SURVIVOR and that trumps all...!
ps. do not forget to get Blueberry State of Mind, a collection of reflective truths, Missy Smith
This book is not what you think it is is. It's better. http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005EGKDQG
Creative Luv to all my sisters and brothers in the ink.
Reflectively Speaking
Writing my life's story with just some ink and a few pieces of paper. Wow here comes Poetry....
Wednesday, April 18, 2012
The Remembrance of Missy
I keep forgetting I am strong
I kept forgetting I “SURVIVED”
I keep forgetting things have changed
I kept forgetting why I am who I am
I keep forgetting silence is not the best policy
I kept forgetting I am loved by all the right people
I keep forgetting to move forward
I kept forgetting I believe
I keep forgetting to leave the past the past
I kept forgetting why I walked away in the first place
I keep forgetting you have yet to change
I kept forgetting you do not define me
I keep forgetting I can love
I kept forgetting I am lovable
I keep forgetting I am not fragile
I kept forgetting weakness has no place nor say
I keep forgetting no one has the power to disrupt my spirit
I kept forgetting we are better apart
I keep forgetting to stop wishing (for your return)
I kept forgetting time does heal all wounds
I keep forgetting that I do know happy
And my soul is now for that very reason soaring......
For’ now I know the remembrance of "Missy"
I keep forgetting I am strong
I kept forgetting I “SURVIVED”
I keep forgetting things have changed
I kept forgetting why I am who I am
I keep forgetting silence is not the best policy
I kept forgetting I am loved by all the right people
I keep forgetting to move forward
I kept forgetting I believe
I keep forgetting to leave the past the past
I kept forgetting why I walked away in the first place
I keep forgetting you have yet to change
I kept forgetting you do not define me
I keep forgetting I can love
I kept forgetting I am lovable
I keep forgetting I am not fragile
I kept forgetting weakness has no place nor say
I keep forgetting no one has the power to disrupt my spirit
I kept forgetting we are better apart
I keep forgetting to stop wishing (for your return)
I kept forgetting time does heal all wounds
I keep forgetting that I do know happy
And my soul is now for that very reason soaring......
For’ now I know the remembrance of "Missy"
Saturday, April 7, 2012
Love
It was accidental we met
Darkness before surrounding me
However, you brought the light
Reminded me of the fight
Days becoming happy again
Sadness found herself another home
Sadness found herself another home
Cherry balm filled kisses
Skin the color of freshly churned butter
Touches causing me to stutter
My heart now yours
Waking to you
Partaking in you
8 years later we’ve parted
Watched you leave
Didn’t have the heart to beg you to stay
Instead, I lay down
Remembering us
And everything that once was
Smiling
Crying
Knowing
Love is a funny sort...
Darkness before surrounding me
However, you brought the light
Reminded me of the fight
Days becoming happy again
Sadness found herself another home
Sadness found herself another home
Cherry balm filled kisses
Skin the color of freshly churned butter
Touches causing me to stutter
My heart now yours
Waking to you
Partaking in you
8 years later we’ve parted
Watched you leave
Didn’t have the heart to beg you to stay
Instead, I lay down
Remembering us
And everything that once was
Smiling
Crying
Knowing
Love is a funny sort...
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
A Son’s Declaration
A Son’s Declaration
(from the book Blueberry State of Mind, a collection of reflective truths, Missy Smith
http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005EGKDQG
I highly encourage you all to get your copy TODAY!
"Black People” My son says!
What about them I ask? They make me so sick he responds. Here is the time being a Mother and not a friend comes into play. Sitting down, I proceed to listen. It was a warm Indian Summer’s day when he made this declaration of dislike towards his own race. You should be proud of where you come from. I am he states, but not towards some of the people that also shares my race. Well, you cannot generalize a whole race because of one mistake made by someone who just so happens to share the same race as you.
Staring at me with those inquisitive hazel eyes made me just open my arms inviting him in. My son, my child, my flesh and blood had become disappointed and disillusioned in his own ancestry. I wanted him to take pride in where he came from and more importantly give him the strength to fledge ahead and become better than those causing him to be incensed. A Mother's arms always seem to do the trick of bringing immediate comfort. Nestling his head against my shoulders like that when he was younger brought great relief to my worrisome soul. Thanks Mom he whispers in that young man's voice he has now acquired. Smiling he breaks our embrace and heads to his room. Relieved, I begin to fix dinner. It was then I realized, I never did find out why “Black People” on this day made him sick.
(from the book Blueberry State of Mind, a collection of reflective truths, Missy Smith
http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005EGKDQG
I highly encourage you all to get your copy TODAY!
"Black People” My son says!
What about them I ask? They make me so sick he responds. Here is the time being a Mother and not a friend comes into play. Sitting down, I proceed to listen. It was a warm Indian Summer’s day when he made this declaration of dislike towards his own race. You should be proud of where you come from. I am he states, but not towards some of the people that also shares my race. Well, you cannot generalize a whole race because of one mistake made by someone who just so happens to share the same race as you.
Staring at me with those inquisitive hazel eyes made me just open my arms inviting him in. My son, my child, my flesh and blood had become disappointed and disillusioned in his own ancestry. I wanted him to take pride in where he came from and more importantly give him the strength to fledge ahead and become better than those causing him to be incensed. A Mother's arms always seem to do the trick of bringing immediate comfort. Nestling his head against my shoulders like that when he was younger brought great relief to my worrisome soul. Thanks Mom he whispers in that young man's voice he has now acquired. Smiling he breaks our embrace and heads to his room. Relieved, I begin to fix dinner. It was then I realized, I never did find out why “Black People” on this day made him sick.
Monday, January 23, 2012
Hold'n U Down, Love
Hold'n u down
Love,
I remember them days back when
It was you and I till the end back then
Riding till we die we said
Guess that time came sooner than later
Now gone our separate ways, I hate it
But time heals all wounds they say
How much time does it take I say
Cuz it’s been a minute+ a couple of days
Remember when the love flowed freely
Your strong arms holding me securely
Should have known it wouldn't last cuz shit was too easy
Fighting for respect brought about constant regrets
Our forever became our for right now
Unpredictable love
Crazy love
Never quite right type of love
Down
I fell
Never truly getting back up
Midway
Caught in-between limbo
We go
Separate ways
Inconsistent days
Memories of you and I
Tears I'd often cry
Retraced steps when I held u down
The impossible meant nothing where you were concerned
Whatever you needed, "I" made sure you had it
Should we,
Could we,
Dare we
Give it another try?
hmmmmmmmm.......
Love,
I remember them days back when
It was you and I till the end back then
Riding till we die we said
Guess that time came sooner than later
Now gone our separate ways, I hate it
But time heals all wounds they say
How much time does it take I say
Cuz it’s been a minute+ a couple of days
Remember when the love flowed freely
Your strong arms holding me securely
Should have known it wouldn't last cuz shit was too easy
Fighting for respect brought about constant regrets
Our forever became our for right now
Unpredictable love
Crazy love
Never quite right type of love
Down
I fell
Never truly getting back up
Midway
Caught in-between limbo
We go
Separate ways
Inconsistent days
Memories of you and I
Tears I'd often cry
Retraced steps when I held u down
The impossible meant nothing where you were concerned
Whatever you needed, "I" made sure you had it
Should we,
Could we,
Dare we
Give it another try?
hmmmmmmmm.......
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
I Finally Cried
So Christmas is finally over. Whew, I escaped not too badly scathed (money wise) that is but mentally it just brought back memories of a painful childhood. Times when I was too afraid to cry, too afraid to say I am not OK. So I learned long ago to smile a little too much, laugh a little louder. All to hide my pain. They say when one is wounded then crying heals those wounds. Thinking to myself now that maybe the reason it took me a long time to heal was because I never allowed myself to cry. I kept it all in. Only telling the pages of my diary secrets I allowed to continuously dirty my soul. Older (Not old lol) but yes older and a little bit wiser, I now know that it's OK to cry. It's OK to say no, I am not OK!
This reflection I wrote when my soul was finally able to do just that. Cry.
Reflection from Blueberry State of Mind, a collection of reflective truths, Missy Smith
http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005EGKDQG
I Finally Cried
This reflection I wrote when my soul was finally able to do just that. Cry.
http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005EGKDQG
I Finally Cried
Walking through the door
Addressing no one
Simply going straight to that place of calm
My room
Falling backwards onto my awaiting queen sized bed
Fully dressed ‘cept for kicked off shoes exposing my stocking feet
Letting loose what I for years kept held back
I finally cried
Not full on tears
Slight trickles at first
Then more
Like a dam overflowing its banks
Soaking me completely
So many tears until my vision became blurred
So in turn, I closed my eyes as it allowed the tears to flow in unison
Never bothering reaching for tissues
I just let them fall
One by One
See I cried because I needed too
Crying for all the years I let pain control me
For times when I was too afraid to live
I cried for the damage upon my soul abusers inflicted
I cried because I was so tired of being tired
I cried for letting myself be used
For letting life get so far ahead of me
I cried for losing my way amongst this directionless place
I cried because the love of my life decided he no longer loved me
I cried because love lost her faith in me
I cried because my innocence so long ago was taken
I cried because I allowed myself to become trapped inside myself
Becoming lost and confused, lonely and abused
I cried because I was empty
I cried because I wanted to feel whole again
I cried because it was the only truthful thing I could control doing
Yes, this day here I cried
I cried for my fathers love
I cried because the only man to ever love me (my Grandfather) was no longer earthly here
I cried for my mother to be mentally alive again
I cried because I too was a mother
I cried because I will never be again that very mother
I cried because I grew up too soon
I cried because I did not know which road to travel upon
I cried because it hurt so damn bad
The pain deeply embedded inside my broken heart
I cried because the man I loved though gone still held my soul
I cried because tomorrow will bring back these very same memories
I cried because I wanted to be free
I cried because I realized in this moment of crying that I was releasing
Cleansing my soul of all life’s toxins
I cried because I was finally OK
Saturday, December 24, 2011
As I Lay
As I Lay
Author Reflectionist Missy Smith
All rights reserved
As I lay
In a puddle of seduction
In the middle of insecurities
Right next to confusion
On top of emotions drifting bliss
In and out
Out and in
I lay continuously in his midst
Sweet surrender
I dance freely
Greedily consuming even the weakest part of me
Licking lips
Caressing cheeks
Wiping tears
That falls constantly
Joys and pains
Both seemingly the same
Enveloping every bit of me
As I lay
In a puddle of seduction
In the middle of insecurities
Right next to confusion
On top of emotions drifting bliss
In and out
Out and in
I lay continuously in his midst
Author Reflectionist Missy Smith
All rights reserved
As I lay
In a puddle of seduction
In the middle of insecurities
Right next to confusion
On top of emotions drifting bliss
In and out
Out and in
I lay continuously in his midst
Sweet surrender
I dance freely
Greedily consuming even the weakest part of me
Licking lips
Caressing cheeks
Wiping tears
That falls constantly
Joys and pains
Both seemingly the same
Enveloping every bit of me
As I lay
In a puddle of seduction
In the middle of insecurities
Right next to confusion
On top of emotions drifting bliss
In and out
Out and in
I lay continuously in his midst
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